War in Gaza

Can anyone tell me who is the aggressor here ?
Both Israel and Palestine seem like a murdering bunch of thugs.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-middle-east-28558433

Both blame each other ,women and children being killed ,and it's nothing to do with them, as usual the innocent suffer the most.

This war just looks like a population controlling exercise. Like World War One was for Britain.

Although it does appear that it is Israel that is trying to make a "Final solution" with Palestinians similar to that practised on them 75 years ago in Germany

If you fire rockets at me, while I go about my own business, I will come round and kick you to death.
If you ask for a cease fire and then continue to fire rockets at me, I will come round and kick you to death.
If you dig a tunnel and come through it to attack me I will come round and kick you to death.

You will call me a murderous thug.

You should stop firing rockets at me.
You should stop digging tunnels.
You should stop hiding behind women and children.

I can't really see an end to this. I couldn't see Israel standing for United Nations intervention either.

When will men realise there are no winner's in any war ,just casualties ,usually the innocent parties.